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<blockquote data-quote="Fladian" data-source="post: 118693" data-attributes="member: 5833"><p>I already talk with "uh" and "um" in all of my sentences. I can't talk without them. Well, I can, but if I do, hardly anyone understands what I'm saying and I often don't understand my own words.</p><p></p><p>As for public speaking itself, well, that depends on the situation and <strong>especially</strong> my own mood. Would you ask me this two years ago, I'd say I couldn't. I just couldn't. I was too shy and too insecure to do anything like that. I forced my personality to change a lot in a short amount of time, which resulted in a very incosistent personality. Though that changes overtime. </p><p></p><p>Therefore, could I speak in 'front of a crowd' comfortably? Yes, and no, again. Another factor which plays a large role is my personal insecurity. Because of an event a long time ago, I pretty much "forgot" my real voice, therefore naturally adjusting to every situation I am in. I often noticed that when I am in front of a lot of people I am not familiar with, my voice automaticly becomes heavier, which involves me being very hard to understand. In opposite of that, when I am in front of an amount of girls I know, my voice becomes quite high and it has a very friendly tone, especially the last one according to them. There are more examples, but this all that needs to be told.</p><p>Therefore, standing in front of a crowd of unknown people, I'll probably start talking, but not many will actually understand me.</p><p></p><p>But on the other hand, when I happen to be in a (very) good mood or just in a happy state I usually am the first to stand for a crowd and start to talk about stuff. My voice becomes very understandable and the pace of my speech increases a bit. I am no longer nervous when I started and everything usually goes just fine.</p><p><strong>But</strong> when those people are a lot older than me, I might just get some problems. Especially those around the fifty/sixty seems to get me quite stuck. Only when a lot of them are together that is.</p><p></p><p>But on a normal day, I usually avoid it. If that is not possible, I try to focus on something specific.</p><p></p><p>On a bad day, I usually get quite nervous. The biggest problem of myself is, unfortunately, I get red quite fast. Even when I'm only a bit nervous, I quickly feel the blood rising to my head. I'm more embarrassed because of that than anything else. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" /></p><p></p><p>But as I said, I (still) have an incosistent personality though not as bad anymore as two years ago. So, it usually depends a lot on that.</p><p></p><p>If you didn't mean talking to a crowd, then it falls differently. I have no problems talking to people I know, even if I met them only once. <strong>But</strong> I cannot start a conversation with someone I never talked to before. If we said 'Hi' to each other before, I can easily talk with that person, about... whatever comes to mind. But if that person and I never said a word against each other, I'm at a loss for words. I either need one heck of a good reason to talk to that person or... well, I can't otherwise. I noticed that a short time ago. That's why I hate calling.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fladian, post: 118693, member: 5833"] I already talk with "uh" and "um" in all of my sentences. I can't talk without them. Well, I can, but if I do, hardly anyone understands what I'm saying and I often don't understand my own words. As for public speaking itself, well, that depends on the situation and [b]especially[/b] my own mood. Would you ask me this two years ago, I'd say I couldn't. I just couldn't. I was too shy and too insecure to do anything like that. I forced my personality to change a lot in a short amount of time, which resulted in a very incosistent personality. Though that changes overtime. Therefore, could I speak in 'front of a crowd' comfortably? Yes, and no, again. Another factor which plays a large role is my personal insecurity. Because of an event a long time ago, I pretty much "forgot" my real voice, therefore naturally adjusting to every situation I am in. I often noticed that when I am in front of a lot of people I am not familiar with, my voice automaticly becomes heavier, which involves me being very hard to understand. In opposite of that, when I am in front of an amount of girls I know, my voice becomes quite high and it has a very friendly tone, especially the last one according to them. There are more examples, but this all that needs to be told. Therefore, standing in front of a crowd of unknown people, I'll probably start talking, but not many will actually understand me. But on the other hand, when I happen to be in a (very) good mood or just in a happy state I usually am the first to stand for a crowd and start to talk about stuff. My voice becomes very understandable and the pace of my speech increases a bit. I am no longer nervous when I started and everything usually goes just fine. [b]But[/b] when those people are a lot older than me, I might just get some problems. Especially those around the fifty/sixty seems to get me quite stuck. Only when a lot of them are together that is. But on a normal day, I usually avoid it. If that is not possible, I try to focus on something specific. On a bad day, I usually get quite nervous. The biggest problem of myself is, unfortunately, I get red quite fast. Even when I'm only a bit nervous, I quickly feel the blood rising to my head. I'm more embarrassed because of that than anything else. :P But as I said, I (still) have an incosistent personality though not as bad anymore as two years ago. So, it usually depends a lot on that. If you didn't mean talking to a crowd, then it falls differently. I have no problems talking to people I know, even if I met them only once. [b]But[/b] I cannot start a conversation with someone I never talked to before. If we said 'Hi' to each other before, I can easily talk with that person, about... whatever comes to mind. But if that person and I never said a word against each other, I'm at a loss for words. I either need one heck of a good reason to talk to that person or... well, I can't otherwise. I noticed that a short time ago. That's why I hate calling. [/QUOTE]
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