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<blockquote data-quote="Fladian" data-source="post: 118739" data-attributes="member: 5833"><p>Logical as it may sound what you say, Raiju, this is just something I cannot do. This has nothing to do with my own personal feelings, but there is more than one reason that we are together besides that we actually care for each other.</p><p>Dumping her is breaking what I tried to build up. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, in case of the one I am together with now, that's purely her feelings. If I would say that I didn't care about that, I wouldn't even have contact with her. Unstable as she is at this moment, there is nothing I should do to get it worse. If that involves me being with her, then it is a price I am willing to pay.</p><p></p><p>About the other girl, well, I expected my chances to be over since a couple of days ago. After taking her to dinner a little while ago, everything went great. Well, I was a bit more quiet than usual, but that didn't surprise me. Everything went well until an other guy showed up. Now, normally I wouldn't mind this too much, but this time I do. You see, I know him - he was a classmate - and earlier in the school year, we both mentioned to each other that we had an eye on the same girl, despite us never being friends. We'd probably regret saying that to each other as we both immediately tried to talk negative about each other when among the girl.</p><p>Because I had to leave early that day, I had to leave the two of them alone. In my point of view, my chances were over. "All cards were played," is a nice phrase to use. The only card he had left would get rid of me and I saw no reason why he wouldn't use it.</p><p>Yesterday, I spoke to the same girl again. Without even asking her anything, she already said that he was just being plain annoying. ("So everything he said was pure nonsense?") Instead of getting me out of the picture, I think he just erased himself. I wouldn't hesitate to say that he actually tried to get rid of me during that day, but considering what he said while I was around, it's unlikely that she believed a thing she said.</p><p>Saying that I shouldn't care about her feelings is something easier said than done. Even for those who call them selves "players," as the other guy I was referring to is someone you could call that. I'm the complete opposite of such a person.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Staying together with them is eventually not an option. It was not my choice to have more feelings for the other girl. Besides, I know where I stand and I know what I can do. It's just unfortunate that all of them are so slim.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Even you would likely not "dump this obstacle." That is something I can guarantee you. Especially "if you were me." <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fladian, post: 118739, member: 5833"] Logical as it may sound what you say, Raiju, this is just something I cannot do. This has nothing to do with my own personal feelings, but there is more than one reason that we are together besides that we actually care for each other. Dumping her is breaking what I tried to build up. Well, in case of the one I am together with now, that's purely her feelings. If I would say that I didn't care about that, I wouldn't even have contact with her. Unstable as she is at this moment, there is nothing I should do to get it worse. If that involves me being with her, then it is a price I am willing to pay. About the other girl, well, I expected my chances to be over since a couple of days ago. After taking her to dinner a little while ago, everything went great. Well, I was a bit more quiet than usual, but that didn't surprise me. Everything went well until an other guy showed up. Now, normally I wouldn't mind this too much, but this time I do. You see, I know him - he was a classmate - and earlier in the school year, we both mentioned to each other that we had an eye on the same girl, despite us never being friends. We'd probably regret saying that to each other as we both immediately tried to talk negative about each other when among the girl. Because I had to leave early that day, I had to leave the two of them alone. In my point of view, my chances were over. "All cards were played," is a nice phrase to use. The only card he had left would get rid of me and I saw no reason why he wouldn't use it. Yesterday, I spoke to the same girl again. Without even asking her anything, she already said that he was just being plain annoying. ("So everything he said was pure nonsense?") Instead of getting me out of the picture, I think he just erased himself. I wouldn't hesitate to say that he actually tried to get rid of me during that day, but considering what he said while I was around, it's unlikely that she believed a thing she said. Saying that I shouldn't care about her feelings is something easier said than done. Even for those who call them selves "players," as the other guy I was referring to is someone you could call that. I'm the complete opposite of such a person. Staying together with them is eventually not an option. It was not my choice to have more feelings for the other girl. Besides, I know where I stand and I know what I can do. It's just unfortunate that all of them are so slim. Even you would likely not "dump this obstacle." That is something I can guarantee you. Especially "if you were me." :P [/QUOTE]
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