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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Fladian" data-source="post: 125682" data-attributes="member: 5833">I'd have a similar thought about it, but honestly, I shouldn't state my opinion. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue    :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />"That's life," was something that had a point. As it is something that generally happens. *raises hand*Well, in all honestly, I didn't kiss anyone when I was drunk (I think <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue    :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" />), however, I was kissed. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue    :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" /> By the girlfriend of a friend, as I recall. I wasn't that drunk at that moment just yet. Her boyfriend stood about a meter away from us. I'm not sure how his mind was working, but I do know that he couldn't walk straight anymore... but then again, so couldn't I, but I was still clear minded. Wow, that's really strict. You can't imagine how happy I was with such an open relationship as I was in. However, I personally am of opinion that what you just mentioned goes a bit too far.Words like, "you may watch but not touch," is something which is heard often and I even heard some "you may not even watch," but that's quite rare. Naturalyl I am against the second. A former boss of mine told me he had quite an open relationship as well. I quoted him somewhere in my quote of the day, as I recall. "Yeah, I remembered her going to a dark corner in the pub with some guy." "Did you mind?" "No, of course not. We were pretending not to know each other to have as much fun as possible. We do this once in a while." I personally am of opinion of what you say, that it would also depend on the partner's standards. Depending on the girl, I would probably not respect those standards you just mentioned. I always said that I wanted to keep my freedom, though I guess I shouldn't say that too loud either. I always said I would be quite satisfied with just about any girl too a few years ago, yet I am single again. A few months ago I talked to a very close friend about a somewhat similar subject, which I declared that I am not prepared of letting all my (girl)friends 'run out the door' when I get in a relationship. The number of (girl)friends probably are more than my (male)friends and I am not intending to stop hanging out with them. As far as I heard, some girls I know/knew said something similar, but backed out after getting into a relationship. For me, it's really a price I wouldn't pay.But on the other hand, I don't kiss anyone intensively either. Just a few innocent kisses from my (and the other) side, which I am not convinced of it is cheating. Someone I mentioned in my starter post is however. Would that involve feeling bad and/or disgusted? Loss of feelings to the current partner? Accident? Similar feelings to another person? Spontanity? All should be perfectly possible. I generally have little to mention in this subject. One of them is because, which side I am going to agree on, I will contradict myself, as I mentioned in the first post. The other one is that I have been in a very open relationship, which didn't remove any bit of our freedom and left everything mostly the same. *sigh*</blockquote>

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