Online Chatting Site

Fladian

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Perhaps not the best place to post it, nor do I have a real reason. But any possible way to get a little more activity is good, right? :p
Regardless, I always have been bad in taking the first word, or starting a discussion/conversation, if you prefer. Therefore, my apologies for the poor explanation; especially considering I am not sure about what to debate despite making the thread. ^^ I'm just hoping something to pop up while typing... as usual.

A couple of years ago, chatting on a site, or a chatroom as it is also called, was extremely popular. I remember the time it overlapped MSN. Asking each other to "come back to the same chatroom the next day," was quite common as well.
During its popular days, I always visited one specific online-chat site. Sometimes other branches of it, but mostly the same. The chatting-thing died with me as well, and I retreated to my forums and MSN, which I still do, apparently. From the one day to the other, I stopped coming, and the same counted for all my friends. The memories of the days that every chatroom was full are still pleasant memories... crowded memories, but fine to remember. The nickname I used back then (besides Eddy) is still the name I use when I decide not to use 'Fladian.' For those who know me a bit longer know that the name is 'Random.' (Valdin is usually used for games)
That popularity is pretty much gone now... or at least, for most.

Out of pure curiousity, I decided to visit the old chatting-site again. Naturally, by the name of 'Random.' I told a friend of mine: "I can't remember people coming to me. Usually it was me, who came to other people." It wasn't very active anymore (about 50 people online at all times) nor did it have the mood I used to love.

A (former) friend of mine had quite a long termed relationship with some girl several years ago. A couple of years passed now, and they broke up a long time ago. I can't recall that they still had any contact with each other.
I said earlier in the post that someone came to me when I logged in (purely coincidental), that's true. I met a few people throughout that online chatting site. All of them have something specific and remarkable that I manage to remember them by. One of them being able to speak twelve different languages ("I only speak two, fluently," "Oh, I speak twelve of them.") and another one having a very... interesting study course. Something with beauty and stuff, while having a part-time job as a car-mechanic. ("Strange combination.") There were some other stuff as well, but I found those easy enough to remember. ^^
I've taken a year of time to test some stuff with people. I made a little miscalculation in that and I am currently living with the somewhat unpleasant consequences (some would call them pleasant, however, depends a bit on how much you like it, I guess). I pretty much got my answers and results from my so-called "test," but I never thought about how it would go with online contacts.

My question is, what do you think of contacts met through an online chatting site? Do they last long?
 
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Undead_Lives

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Meh, I don't go into chat rooms, no point.
As for you question, no. You don't really know the person. People are different on the internet, they could be pretending to be someone else. Thus a long term friendship or whatever cannot happen. And people stop coming by, or go on less frequently...etc. One way or another, it ends.
 

Benx_X

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Well it doesnt realy bother me if someone i meet on the net goes away for awile because i dont even know them IRL so i couldnt realy care lol (no offence to people >_<), and as for chatroom sites i dont realy use them because its uasly just alot of people looking for net dating witch i dont do. The only chatrooms i use are the BNet channels and MSN the rest are just dodgy >_>.
 

Fladian

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Meh, I don't go into chat rooms, no point.[/b]
Why is there no point in it? I could assume things, but then I would come to the same conclusion that coming to a forum has "no point" either.

As for you question, no. You don't really know the person. People are different on the internet, they could be pretending to be someone else. Thus a long term friendship or whatever cannot happen. And people stop coming by, or go on less frequently...etc. One way or another, it ends.
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Yet it happens quite often that a relationship comes forth out of it. The Dutch chat (and music) channel, TMF (The Music Factory, one of the three music channels out here) seems to be hooking up people quite nicely, especially after hearing the stories about it.

Only a while ago, someone called the radio DJ, Barry Paf, to inform him (and his listeners) that someone was getting married with someone who he met through that chat. You could say it is just an exception, but (well, the marriage doesn't really happen every day) the hooking up is nearly a daily event.

As for myself, my current relationship is by someone I mostly met online. We met once at her hometown, (city, one of the biggest cities out here :p) and a little later I got her email. We were... quite active on MSN. But that's a different story. ^^

Well it doesnt realy bother me if someone i meet on the net goes away for awile because i dont even know them IRL so i couldnt realy care lol (no offence to people >_<), and as for chatroom sites i dont realy use them because its uasly just alot of people looking for net dating witch i dont do. The only chatrooms i use are the BNet channels and MSN the rest are just dodgy >_>.
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Back in the earlier days, just signing on in a chatroom could be used just for fun as well. ^^ And that still happens. If that wasn't the case, then I met a lot of unfaithful girls - mind you, I only chat with girls in a private conversation. :p
Though the "I'm pregnant" reaction of someone did become famous in my book. :p

The average age of the Blizzard channels is a tad too low for me. MSN is my all-time favorite, and normally, I'm online just about always when at home. Just not... lately.
 

Benx_X

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yes please, also i understand if you say no alot of people only want people on who they know IRL i was like that once but then i just didnt care any more
 

Fladian

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I have a handful of forgeiners on my contact list, and a few people whom I met through an online chatting site, though they are mostly the people I mentioned earlier in the first post of the thread.

Anyway, my email is not open for everyone. You'll receive a PM from me shortly.
 

Undead_Lives

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I'm sorry Ben. A rule of mine is not to give out my personal email to people I don't know in person. I'm just that way.
There is a point to a forum though Flad. It's a place to discuss/get help on something people are interested in. In a chat room, well it's like going to a party of people you don't know. Which I don't like and I see no point to.
 
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Fladian

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My school is supposed to have a chatroom too (or so says the intranet), but I never saw it. I can't remember anyone I ever talked with knew it either and some teachers aren't familiar with it either.

It's save to assume it's only for the good name. :p
 
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