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<blockquote data-quote="edwinfong25" data-source="post: 127888" data-attributes="member: 6832"><p>well, i'd say busy enough that they haven't got the boredom to go onto every site that they can remember... lol</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, unfortunately, i doubt that i'd ever test them until it was absolutely necessary (in my opinion) and by then, it'll probably be too late, lol</p><p>depends on what happens i suppose, lol, but that i can't comment on til later, lol</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, sometimes the people that i'd help may not necessarily be my friends, lol (yes, sounds odd)</p><p>and once again that just comes down to the defining of the term of friendship</p><p>i've no problem helping people who sincerely are asking for help</p><p>but that doesn't necessarily make me consider them a friend, lol</p><p>well, i dont know about having the responsibility of it all...</p><p>but i'd like to think that if any of my friends ever needed help, i'd try to help them... (of course, i know enough that sometimes that's not always possible... but i'd think that if it was possible, i'd take the chance)</p><p>heh, well, i haven't any goal of doing so either... it's just something that if it were to ever occur, i'd hope that i'd be able to make the "right" decision (regardless whether that would indeed be to help or not) and obviously that has no meaning til the time comes (if it ever were to)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, maybe i look at myself somewhat highly? (erm, i dont think that i'm arrogant about it or anything, but i definitely like to think that i would be able to do stuff, lol)</p><p>well, i don't know if i'd be able to actually name things that i'd be able to do, lol</p><p>honestly, i doubt it'd turn out at all well if anything bad were to happen, lol (i'm no hero, lol, so it'd probably turn out to be worthless what i'd be able to do, lol)</p><p>but i still like to think that i'd at least try... lol</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, i suppose that i figure that i've still got time to worry about it later on, lol (no point taking up more than i can handle, lol)</p><p>yes, well, i think that i'd say that i'm completely unsuccessful, lol (well, considering that i haven't had a girlfriend, nor has anyone seemingly shown an interest of any kind towards me, lol) but what do i know, lol</p><p>still, that's not to say that just because i'd refer to it as unsuccessful that it's overly a bad thing, lol (in a sense, rather, it's part of who i am, and i've come to accept that that's how it is for now, and i'm pretty sure that it'll change through time, lol)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, values can change often and quite quickly...</p><p>and seeing as there is no scale to say that friends have to be rated with a higher "value", i'd think that it's absolutely understandable</p><p>additionally, the fact that you have no regrets on the matter shows that you've made the right choice</p><p>as a matter of fact, the way that i see it... if they are that concerned that you do not place them highly in your heart... perhaps they do not quite see you as a friend... for if they valued you as greatly as they'd expected you to do them... perhaps they would have been able to understand that they are not the only ties that you hold to the world</p><p>answering the question is not necessary, lol</p><p>just recognizing it and thinking about it (as you have done) is all that can be achieved out of it</p><p>well, friendships occur in strange fashions, lol</p><p>and so long as there is some tie that bonds you together (and nothing that severs it) then the bond shall remain, even if it goes unnoticed</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>yes, its definitely a lot of idealism in it, lol</p><p>i mean, at some point, my view may change... i won't try to act like i'm perfect, lol, i just might be a complete hypocrite if it came down to it...</p><p>but for now at the least, this is my view, and i have no intentions of going against it... (and as long as i can maintain it, i will try)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, i'm not going to argue that i'm not naive, lol</p><p>i know for a fact that i'm not experienced with many matters (or even well informed at some, lol)</p><p>but i'd rather go with it, until something truly makes me change my mind, or proves my methods wrong...</p><p>i mean, if it works, why try to fix it?</p><p>perhaps i can be lucky enough that i will continue to live with simplicity, and if not, then i'll have to change with the times... but i'll try to wait on the change with regards to this, lol</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>yes, i absolutely understand that, lol</p><p>well, but i'd have to say, lol, if i dont trust my own judgment (even if it should prove to be wrong) then whose judgment should i trust? lol?</p><p>so i'll probably still go by this as well, lol (but that's not to think that i'm not cautious, lol, trust is easily lost, and not so easily gained)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, i believe you, but unfortunately there's some things that i'll have to experience myself before truly knowing that i was wrong...</p><p>mind you, i was aware of such matters and even know that certain experiences are utterly undesirable</p><p>i will heed your advice and avoid certain experiences, but nonetheless some things may be a bit unavoidable... so we'll see, lol</p><p></p><p>theory and practice are no doubt as different as can be;</p><p>but i've never considered taking them separately</p><p></p><p>(lol, i just made a rhyme, lol <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" />)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>lol, examples of people being fully capable of changing as time passes</p><p>still, i'm pretty certain about this one... i'd really like to avoid it altogether, lol</p><p>still, only way we'll know what happens is when it indeed happens, lol (but i'll say, i'm putting my life on the line on this one, lol)</p><p>(yeah, odd humor at times, lol)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, i think that it may have made more sense somewhat in context with the rest of the erm... composition, lol</p><p>but yeah, i'd suppose that that's what i'd be referring to</p><p>well, that's a very good thing <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>shows good self-control and determination (willpower) both to be able to maintain composure as well as to stop using drugs</p><p>I respect that, and very greatly for that matter :wink:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, that's not to say i haven't regretted things that i've done...</p><p>i've done a good deal of things that i would say i regret, some as simple as regretting having not shown certain manners or responding in ways that may have been more appropriate... (such as being more keen on details, or sometimes complimenting people)</p><p>and other things, i've regretted with a much greater intensity... i still can't say that i've gotten over them, but like i had said, since i can't go back and change them, i've somewhat accepted them, and although i haven't forgotten them... (they still remind me of my great flaws and errors, nearly every day...) i use them as part of my determination to ensure that i don't allow for such mistakes to be made again...</p><p>and then after a while (as well as with some wise words from certain people) i've accepted them even more, and now even look back at some of these things as being great learning points, such as allowing me to understand myself a bit further, and now, i don't even think that i would change them if given the chance... sure, there's always that longing to think that things may have been better, but i'm also rational enough to think that without those events, i would not have learned certain things, and that they may not have necessarily been better, both with respect to my not having experienced them and the changes that they caused as well as the fact of the matter that i dont know that it'd be better anyways, lol</p><p></p><p>well, i agree that it's not always easy to follow up on such tasks, but it's the will to keep trying that really counts, lol</p><p>and best of luck in maintaining the goal of no more regrets, i fully support you in that <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>well, not an old man exactly, lol more like an older boy, lol</p><p>but definitely feeling older, lol :wink:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="edwinfong25, post: 127888, member: 6832"] well, i'd say busy enough that they haven't got the boredom to go onto every site that they can remember... lol well, unfortunately, i doubt that i'd ever test them until it was absolutely necessary (in my opinion) and by then, it'll probably be too late, lol depends on what happens i suppose, lol, but that i can't comment on til later, lol well, sometimes the people that i'd help may not necessarily be my friends, lol (yes, sounds odd) and once again that just comes down to the defining of the term of friendship i've no problem helping people who sincerely are asking for help but that doesn't necessarily make me consider them a friend, lol well, i dont know about having the responsibility of it all... but i'd like to think that if any of my friends ever needed help, i'd try to help them... (of course, i know enough that sometimes that's not always possible... but i'd think that if it was possible, i'd take the chance) heh, well, i haven't any goal of doing so either... it's just something that if it were to ever occur, i'd hope that i'd be able to make the "right" decision (regardless whether that would indeed be to help or not) and obviously that has no meaning til the time comes (if it ever were to) well, maybe i look at myself somewhat highly? (erm, i dont think that i'm arrogant about it or anything, but i definitely like to think that i would be able to do stuff, lol) well, i don't know if i'd be able to actually name things that i'd be able to do, lol honestly, i doubt it'd turn out at all well if anything bad were to happen, lol (i'm no hero, lol, so it'd probably turn out to be worthless what i'd be able to do, lol) but i still like to think that i'd at least try... lol well, i suppose that i figure that i've still got time to worry about it later on, lol (no point taking up more than i can handle, lol) yes, well, i think that i'd say that i'm completely unsuccessful, lol (well, considering that i haven't had a girlfriend, nor has anyone seemingly shown an interest of any kind towards me, lol) but what do i know, lol still, that's not to say that just because i'd refer to it as unsuccessful that it's overly a bad thing, lol (in a sense, rather, it's part of who i am, and i've come to accept that that's how it is for now, and i'm pretty sure that it'll change through time, lol) Well, values can change often and quite quickly... and seeing as there is no scale to say that friends have to be rated with a higher "value", i'd think that it's absolutely understandable additionally, the fact that you have no regrets on the matter shows that you've made the right choice as a matter of fact, the way that i see it... if they are that concerned that you do not place them highly in your heart... perhaps they do not quite see you as a friend... for if they valued you as greatly as they'd expected you to do them... perhaps they would have been able to understand that they are not the only ties that you hold to the world answering the question is not necessary, lol just recognizing it and thinking about it (as you have done) is all that can be achieved out of it well, friendships occur in strange fashions, lol and so long as there is some tie that bonds you together (and nothing that severs it) then the bond shall remain, even if it goes unnoticed yes, its definitely a lot of idealism in it, lol i mean, at some point, my view may change... i won't try to act like i'm perfect, lol, i just might be a complete hypocrite if it came down to it... but for now at the least, this is my view, and i have no intentions of going against it... (and as long as i can maintain it, i will try) well, i'm not going to argue that i'm not naive, lol i know for a fact that i'm not experienced with many matters (or even well informed at some, lol) but i'd rather go with it, until something truly makes me change my mind, or proves my methods wrong... i mean, if it works, why try to fix it? perhaps i can be lucky enough that i will continue to live with simplicity, and if not, then i'll have to change with the times... but i'll try to wait on the change with regards to this, lol yes, i absolutely understand that, lol well, but i'd have to say, lol, if i dont trust my own judgment (even if it should prove to be wrong) then whose judgment should i trust? lol? so i'll probably still go by this as well, lol (but that's not to think that i'm not cautious, lol, trust is easily lost, and not so easily gained) well, i believe you, but unfortunately there's some things that i'll have to experience myself before truly knowing that i was wrong... mind you, i was aware of such matters and even know that certain experiences are utterly undesirable i will heed your advice and avoid certain experiences, but nonetheless some things may be a bit unavoidable... so we'll see, lol theory and practice are no doubt as different as can be; but i've never considered taking them separately (lol, i just made a rhyme, lol :)) lol, examples of people being fully capable of changing as time passes still, i'm pretty certain about this one... i'd really like to avoid it altogether, lol still, only way we'll know what happens is when it indeed happens, lol (but i'll say, i'm putting my life on the line on this one, lol) (yeah, odd humor at times, lol) Well, i think that it may have made more sense somewhat in context with the rest of the erm... composition, lol but yeah, i'd suppose that that's what i'd be referring to well, that's a very good thing :) shows good self-control and determination (willpower) both to be able to maintain composure as well as to stop using drugs I respect that, and very greatly for that matter :wink: well, that's not to say i haven't regretted things that i've done... i've done a good deal of things that i would say i regret, some as simple as regretting having not shown certain manners or responding in ways that may have been more appropriate... (such as being more keen on details, or sometimes complimenting people) and other things, i've regretted with a much greater intensity... i still can't say that i've gotten over them, but like i had said, since i can't go back and change them, i've somewhat accepted them, and although i haven't forgotten them... (they still remind me of my great flaws and errors, nearly every day...) i use them as part of my determination to ensure that i don't allow for such mistakes to be made again... and then after a while (as well as with some wise words from certain people) i've accepted them even more, and now even look back at some of these things as being great learning points, such as allowing me to understand myself a bit further, and now, i don't even think that i would change them if given the chance... sure, there's always that longing to think that things may have been better, but i'm also rational enough to think that without those events, i would not have learned certain things, and that they may not have necessarily been better, both with respect to my not having experienced them and the changes that they caused as well as the fact of the matter that i dont know that it'd be better anyways, lol well, i agree that it's not always easy to follow up on such tasks, but it's the will to keep trying that really counts, lol and best of luck in maintaining the goal of no more regrets, i fully support you in that :) well, not an old man exactly, lol more like an older boy, lol but definitely feeling older, lol :wink: [/QUOTE]
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