Ooohhh...Part 3 – Depressing Moments[/b]
Actually, it's the coincidence that I heard it recently, according to the news, the insecurity, or inferiority, if you prefer, has been increasing in high numbers recently by men as well. Edwin (radio dj, red.) had a nice laugh about it, but didn't deny that it would be false. If you'd pay a little attention to it - and look back to how it used to be - you could say that everything does point to that, yes.Why must a girl always think she is inferior? I have noticed that most girls (besides the over confident popular ones) actually lack a LOT of self-confidence. Where does that come from? [/b]
Therefore, the statement you gave isn't completely true.
Nonsense. A similar (backside) question could be asked to men instead. Why do they feel superior? Why do people (still) find it remarkable when the woman is taller than the man? Why does the man still have the image of being 'stronger'? The question can be turned in every way. The theory you gave is far from right. Ironically that someone like me is defending that though.Well, I have one theory. And that is the fact that for years they have been treated as if they were lower than men. Men got all of the privileges and women got stuck at home caring for the kids, cleaning and cooking. It might just be that the long history of mistreating women has finally got to every single one of them, save a few who are trying to break that trend.[/b]
Protection. That protection isn't available at younger ages and slowly growns while the person is unaware of it, what might annoy the... uh... child. The Dutch artist, Guus Meeuwis, mentioned something similar in a song named 'schilderij' (painting). I'll quote that:Speaking of lack of confidence, why must adults treat teenagers as if they are all the same, even though they practically drill it into us to act like young men and women? [/b]
[/b][/quote]<div align="center">A lot has happened this year
something and someone has colored pieces of my life
Life is sometimes just like a painting
as example, I'll give the painting of my own
I don't know who makes the first sketch
Your parents, coincidence or faith
or Him, because his parents had a donkey
in other words; the right hand of God
But your parents are the first who start painting
Careful red and later yellow and green
because, when you are a student
you, unfortunately, want to do more and more by yourself
Life is sometimes just like a painting
and time slowly gives it more color
And then others start to get them involved
Your friends, they mix themselves in the cafe
Everything through each other, it's a mess
but the most beautiful of all is what you take with you
And the women who leave their pranks
too much of it, and too much blues too
They are now air, but that has been different once
A sea of tears, and no horizon in sight
Guus Meeuwis
If you understand why I translated that piece of the song (I skipped the last part, as it is of no importance), you also have an answer to what I said. =)
Because time changes? At the school I attend to right now, there's a picture of my father when he was still a student (40 years ago is my wild guess). I didn't believe him at first when he pointed at the public photo that is at school, but I had to believe it when he showed a nearly similar picture when we were home again. Pretty funny, actually. He still had hair on that photo. More than I ever had for that matter.Even after all of that, they still view us as all the same, “those rotten teenagers and their attitudes”. Do they not realize that teenagers are individuals too? Do teenagers not deserve the “benefit of the doubt” or the “innocent until proven guilty”? Why can adults not take the time to see if the teenager really has an attitude or the like before passing some stereotypical judgment? That is question I don’t have the answer to.[/b]
Regardless, it is no big secret that puberty also brings rebelious behavior. Or at least, makes them act unproperly, which is the main part that is hated by adults, and understandable because it has resulted in mutliple problems.
Also, why would they need to accept someone immediately? I am pretty satisfied with how it goes. But that probably is related to the fact that I'm supposed to be an 'adult' too.
Now you are just plain referring to me, right? (considering that I studied trade, administration and (currently) laws. They are not necessarily related to each other)Finally, along the lines of not taking the time to avoid stereotypes, what about salespeople? [/b]
I uh... didn't really get the point of this section. But I nearly failed 'trade' class (officially the hardest class I've ever had, that and 'costing price')Normally a salesperson is looked upon as someone who is just trying to sell you something and doesn’t care if you use his or her product at all. But guess what? That’s their job. And I personally know some salespeople, and some of them are only trying to help you. Now, yes, the consumer has to be aware of where to draw the line, where helping ends and selling begins. But that’s being an informed consumer. And everyone should be an informed consumer.[/b]
There. That's one. Three more threads to read.