This thread was posted yesterday. ^^
I misunderstood you the first time I read your post, I now do understand what you meant though. And I'll answer it.
It still aren't "control issues," as everyone has their own opinion of protecting the person they care about. Despite that I usually act like a freelancer, I always have an eye out for the people I care about to make sure nothing happens to them... it just isn't as obvious as some people tend to do. He decided it was in his, and her best intention to protect her in every way possible. It could be possible that he missed the fact that he would also take away her freedom. Whatever he was in how far he is going to protect her is beyond me, and I didn't draw a conclusion yet with the information I have, nor is it really necessary anymore. As for not 'seeing me' anymore, I... no, we drew several conclusions from it, though only a few are logical, but most of them are not very realistic.