bottom line is, it is all hard work, parenting, being a kid, being
a student, being an athelete, and when we start expecting shit
to just "BE", it goes to hell in a hand basket. it will never be
perfect and these thoughts bothered our parents before us and
their parents before them. we just have to keep working. so
many "insignificant" decisions are really significant in the grand
scheme of things that we must work hard to be aware of our
surroundings and what cause/effect we may be dishing out. yea,
your kid might not have heard you drop the "f" bomb when you
broke your bong, but who did? too many times we say "who cares"
and it burdens us all in the long run. its always gonna be hard
work.