you have spent more time posting and replying to all these post to where you could read essays found on google to answar your questions.
i google'd grindel and got tons of feed backs
and essays people have wrote and they are free...
you want links i will provid them.
and i am in no way 'rich' or 'have everything' (i dont remember how you put it but u painted it that way)
i make car payments, car insurance payments, rent, utillities, health insurance, credit card.
i have enough to have wiggle room on weekends hand have a few drinks.
dude all im sayin im not trying to ride your ass but it appears your just damn lazy. and im not fallin into your pity party trap.
much wb no h8 just get off yo ass and do somthin bout it