A strange way to start, but I'll start with your final comment before I say anything else. =)
I had no serious intention of pushing you into telling. Like I said before, I am not forcing anyone. Therefore, I placed a wink behind my comment in the other post.I could get into more detail - but I won't - unless you push me more, [/b]
I see. Well, the only thing I can suggest is that you just calm down, if necessary.and no Fladian your little statement didn't make me wnat to type this, it's just that I just finished up another conversation with my mom and am depressed again.[/b]
I don't think we are thinking the same thing when you read my post and I read this part. =)Aye, that's why I'm not too fond of sharing but I'll give you the outline: [/b]
I could have seen one coming any day as well before my mother got her health problems, so I'm familiar with a family constantly arguing, though I'm quite confident in saying that your situation is a lot worse.Let's just say there's a divorce now between my mom and my dad[/b]
Though genes often play a role in the person's life, it remains a fact that you still make your own choices. Depending on those choices it will be the only possible way to 'confirm' that statement.(Which would make me partly insane.)[/b]
Affording the divorce often results as a problem, especially for those who aren't financial 'safe', to say it like that. I mean that it just happens quite often. =)Anyways so my mom had a grude against my dad's family and they would have a divorce if we could afford it. [/b]
"Who's advice to take", you say? Don't you mean who's side to take? Since I am not sure what kind of advice any of the two would give. But in the situation of what you said, it sounds quite logical that they "won't listen to each other", but such often happens in any up-coming divorcing family.I have no idea who's advice to take because they both say different things and well they won't listen to each other. [/b]
Then tell me, Hunter, do you have any other family living home? Like a brother or a sister? If so, what is their opinion about it.Overall no one knows what to do, just what they want to do. [/b]
You know it will come eventually, and the only words I can give you is wishing you luck.I'm pretty much depressed because obviously I will have to chose one over the other and because this situation is making me feel more lonely.[/b]