When I hit it big customizing cars in Richmond I had a trust setup. The trust is held and protected by my three family attorneys, which will work as an un-noticed prenup. She may only access my assets if my attorneys and myself feel it necessary; which means she has no legal right to my estate...unless we add her to the trust. This I don't see happening no matter how much I love or trust her. The trust was setup to protect the future of my family; especially children and grandchildren.
I consider myself to be fairly smart and I hope picking a strict persian girl as my wife will pay off with her family values.